Thursday, December 29, 2011

Hit a threshold

Often times I feel like I want to quit PUA and get back to my previous Wass 1.0 version. But, when I see other folks in the community struggling like me, I get motivated once again.Today, I found the following webs...

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Inner game articles

http://puaintraining.com/2010/05/06/abundance-mentality-theres-more-where-that-came-from/http://puacenter.com/main/inner-ga...

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Progress Checkpoint

- did the Pickup101 30-day challenge to embrace approach anxiety- reached level 8 of BradP Social Freedom program- learned basic structure and techniques of PU- improved my lifestyle by going out more often with or without company- read Brad's fashion Bible, The Game, Xuma's Inner Game, Love Systems' body language, Sinn's Day Game, Roger Love Vocal Power- joined a fitness...

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Raise Your Standards

Let me say it again. Raise your standards, in every area in your life:- find another job, if you aren't satistfied with your actual one, or be active searching,- if you exercise regularly, then great. Otherwise, alpha man takes care of his body as well as his mind- if you're in an average to low value relationship then change it. If you're single, then aim at high quality women. Don't involve yourself...

Monday, August 1, 2011

Finding Energy II

In a previous post, I talked about how I could increase my energy with little effort. In this topic, I'm going to deal with emotional energy. Carlos Xuma, in his Secrets of the Alpha Man product (which I recommend), said that success in life in mostly determined by our EQ, not by our IQ. EQ stands for Emotional intelligence. What he meant is, no matter how intelligent you...

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

It's all in your mind

Energy, discipline, hope, expectancy, motivation, hard work. It's all in your mind. It's about changing the way you think about everything and cutting with your past performance and beliefs. If you repeat the same thinking patterns in your head, you still get the same negative feelings over and over again. I countless times heard this, but now it sounds so damn true. I don't...

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Movies that will change your Thinking

- Into the Wild - 127 Hours - Pursuit of Happiness - Memento The first two ones are the most touching. Happiness is not by owning a lot of things; it occurs when we share those things. Sharing is the key. Share a smile, share a kiss, share a piece of sandwich, ... We neglect a lot of moments with our parents, our siblings, our family.. But we sit down and look back at them,...

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Me and I

I may not be a genius, but I am stubborn enough to get what I want. I am not patient, but I know that when I'm on the verge of breaking down good things appear, like cool water out of hot sand. I may not be very handsome and sexy, but I have my character that I design every day? I may not be born in a wealthy family, but I have my beliefs to tweak. I may not have had the career I dreamt of in my childhood,...

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

It takes 21 days

It takes 21 days to make a chick. It takes 21 days to form a habit. According to Carlos Xuma, if I concentrate only on one habit or belief, for 21 days, I can have 15 new beliefs in one year! That's change. He said that, what's important in affirmations is tracking progress, not the affirmations themselves. What if you take 21 days to improve your voice? 21 days to improve...

Sunday, May 22, 2011

The importance of deep breathing

All day I practiced deep breathing. I mean, inhale slowly with my nose until my lungs are full and exhale totally through my mouth until my lungs are "empty" and my stomach is stressed. Does it have benefits? I totally agree: - I am more focused on what is most important to me at one time, - I can work steadily without feeling tired, - I did not feel depressed or anxious, -...

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Mystery explains approach anxiety

I loved the word "desensitize yourself"Watch h...

How to overcome the fear of rejection

Sosuave....

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Going Loud II

I came across my old post "Going Loud" and felt cold in my knees. I used to enjoy my time and now I'm all job-oriented. One girl told me she grew old with me. I was old.Now I put hard rock and heavy metal in my car during daily commute. Hobbies are inevitable to maintain a healthy soul, just as food is necessary for the body. I was comtaminating people around me with my bad mood these days because...

Monday, April 11, 2011

Careful choosing your friends

Friends matter. Don't tell me that you can face the problems of life without them. They are the ones that you can lean on whenever it becomes tough. Whenever you fell suffocated, mistreated, heart-broken, sad, depressed, they are here to help you with a word, a thought, an advice or even a smile.Yesterday I met an old friend. I hesitated at first, then I said let's give it a try. But my intuition...

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Keep the Faith

Tonight my girlfriend broke up with me. She said she feels bad when she's with me. She says that I'm sweet. I fell into the Nice Guy syndrom. I felt very sad, like when the last girl left me. tears fell down like a shocked baby. I'm a sensitive man. But I'll keep the faith in Allah, for He is the Creator of circumstances. This incident should make me stronger and more focused...

What are you worth?

A collegue of mine is thinking about leaving the company. He has already 4 years experience in Unix/database. He's been offered almost 2000DT/month to work in another big company.When I think about it, and observe my situation, doubts rush through my mind. Have I made the right move by coming here? When should I stop underestimating my professional skills?So, what are you wor...

Monday, April 4, 2011

Finding Energy

It's monday morning. I'm feeling tired. My eyes are burning. I didn't study enough yesterday. It's April 4th, and I have many topics to practice yet for the exam. I've been thinking about my emotional life and where it was heading. But with that, I lost precious time: half a sunday.Ok, nobody is perfect, and I have some flaws in my discipline. And I need more energy. I need more focus. I'll concentrate...

Friday, April 1, 2011

Job offer

I've been interviewed yesterday by a project manager of a medium IT company.On my way to the company, I was doing incantations. Are there intense incantations and light incantations? I don't think so, since incantations must inevitably be done with the whole mind being involved in the belief. So talking about incantations or intense incantations is the same thing.I arrived in time. I was feeling confident...

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Declining a job offer

This afternoon, a HR company called to offer a job to me. They said that Fidelity is seeking a Senior Data Analyst for its office here in Tunisia.I declined it.The HR clerk was surprised with my response. I felt that in her voice. There was a little bit of anger. I explained to her that I'd rather work with a networking company, not in a financial institution. My next career move will be with a company...

Friday, March 25, 2011

Reducing sleep time

this is my second day with only 6hours of sleep per night. I already feel drowsiness :-) I listened to EIGRP session from INE CCNP bootcamp, and consciously I almost understood nothing :-)Reducing my sleep time and keeping it is mandatory to me. I have to admit something. I am not up to date in my field. I have a lot of material to read, to synthetise and to memorize. Besides, I am still not an avid...

Friday, March 18, 2011

Let's "incantate"

I had bad dreams last three nights. I had a lot of negative self-talk. This is going to disappear because I'm adopting the famous Tony Robbins' incantations. Yes they do work if I repeat them consistently and with belief. Some visualization is helpful. I read that some people experienced success if they do incantations for 20mn a day.Here are some of my incantations, translated to English:- I can...

Saturday, March 12, 2011

You, The Solution: Jackson's career shows power of hard w...

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

checkpoint of my progress

I took a LOT of rest the last two weeks. I have a lot of study to cover for the TSHOOT exam. I read that it's not that difficult, and it's fun.I need to read more. Now, welcome back OSPF ...

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Back from France

CIPT v8 was full of new knowledge. I'm confident that it'll open more opportunities to learn and to advance in my career. Voice over IP (VoIP) is no longer a luxury technology. It's a must.For now, I will photoread the CIPT books each night before bed, along with TSHOOT books. tomorrow I'll resume my TSHOOT studies. The goal is:- to pass the TSHOOT exam before April 15th --> CCNP status- to study...

Sunday, February 13, 2011

- practice Silence, 30mn in the morning and before sleep. This is part of the Law of Pure Potentiality- live the present moment. If you reconstruct the past, you'll reconstruct past emotions. The future is anticipation. If your anticipation is bad, you'll bring negative emotions in your present. So focus on the moment.- Accept everything as it is, because that's how it is supposed to be. It's part...

Friday, February 11, 2011

If you need motivation to study and work hard

Chinese young children of low class society work and learn. H...

Sunday, February 6, 2011

2-months Goals

Deadline: March ...

Friday, February 4, 2011

First session of Silence

I finished 15 minutes of silence. Damn it was harder than I thought. At first, a million thoughts rushed into my brain. I felt my head was going to explode! I felt sometimes drowsy. Sometimes I open my eyes to not fall asleep :-)Now, I feel less stressed, more open to communication. Overall it's a wonderful experience. I want mo...

Thursday, January 27, 2011

The CEO speech

I was not expecting a lot from his speech this noon. He talked about staying together and attracting more clients. I was bored. I kept looking at people faces. They were anxio...

Rediscovering NLP

Waw! I'm going to love this audio book "NLP: The new Technology of Achievement". I only listened to the first track, by charles Faulkner.I already feel the changes. I'm happier, more productive, less sensitive to people's critics, less influenced by people's opinions, more focused, more energy..Today I'm going to listen to track 2, by Kelly Gerli...

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Tunisia: freedom day

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Pictures of Tunisia: days of the Chaos

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Saturday, January 22, 2011

Tunisia is free

January 14 will be a celebration day for all of us. Tunisia is a country of democracy now. Tunisia is the first country where the people IS the ruler.I'm proud of being Tunisi...

Saturday, January 8, 2011

A road revisited

I was determined to become an international consultant. And I still am. To fly the world, to experience a new lifestyle, to see new cultures, new mindsets. I no longer care on which networking technology I'm going to work, as long as I'm on the right road.Time to play with JUN...

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Riding along the dirty road

Things are happening fast. Things go in the other direction sometimes. I was a little stubborn. I have to open my eyes and change my focus, change my camera lenses.Perfect career, an off-road track. Cisco vs Juniper. I need to consider them complimentary, instead of opposite sides. So what about Juniper? Is it the perfect time?I have blurred mind, scrambled ideas and flashbacks....